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Deborah S. (Nee Stock) Lay

October 29, 1956 — June 9, 2023

Deborah S. (nee Stock) Lay, age 66, of Carlisle, PA, passed away on Friday, June 9, 2023, at the Hershey Medical Center. She was born in St. Louis, MO on October 29, 1956.

Deborah worked various jobs in the hairstyling industry. She most especially enjoyed being “Mimi” to her grandchildren.

She is survived by her husband of 39 years, Ronald K. Lay; daughters Melanie C. Reifsteck and her husband Jeff of Carlisle, PA and Holly A. Sheriff and her husband Marcus Collins of Mt. Pleasant Mills, PA; grandchildren Emma, Caleb, and Logan Reifsteck; sisters Diane Stock and her husband Bill and son Andrew of St. Louis, MO and Sheri Smith and her husband Richard of Warrenton, MO; brothers Gregg LaBeau and his wife Joyce of O’Fallon, MO and Kirk LaBeau and his wife Dawn of O’Fallon, MO. Deborah was preceded in death by her daughter Christine Marie Sheriff, mother Carol LaBeau and maternal grandmother Anna Wischmeyer.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society at

Arrangements have been entrusted to the Hoffman Funeral Home in Carlisle, PA. To sign online guestbook, please visit

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